The romantic love we feel toward the opposite sex is probably one extra help from God to bring you together, but that's it. All the rest of it, the true love, is the test.

All teenagers have this desire to somehow run away.

Acting for me is not a bad habit like smoking that I must make an effort to quit. I love acting; I love directing.

For the past few years, I was the more visible Asian performer, and I think it gave young girls a kind of role model showing it's possible to actually reach success doing movies.

There are a lot of stereotypes to be broken which I think a lot of us are doing. What I do is, as soon as people try to pin me down to one kind of part, I'll play a very different kind of role, so it explodes that stereotype.

Acting is actually private.

All Asian parents are into your children having a respectable, decent stable job. Acting was unimaginable to my parents.

As an actress I find the most enjoyable part of acting is really just to please the director. I just want to please my director.

How I was raised is what I am today.

I don't find intimate scenes more difficult than other scenes.

I don't want to tell people what I make. It's a lot more than I ever dreamed of as a kid. I never think about it.

I know what actors fear, what they like; I know how to get things out of them and I listen to them better, since I've been there.

I never went on an audition - when they were really looking at everybody.

I would never offer advice without the person asking for it. I, in general, don't believe in giving advice, actually, as a human being I don't.

If you know how to do a job very well, you keep doing it.

My fairy-tale life ended the moment I wanted to apply for a passport.

The difference between me and American-born actors is that I came here with the expectation of not being treated fairly.

The lowest budget U.S. films are ten times times better than shooting in Tibet.

When you feel so strongly about something and other people feel equally strongly, you have to feel stronger about it in order to succeed.

Beauty is the result of having been through an experience all the way through to the end - therefore it has a poignancy. Beauty that is singular always comes from following an experience to the point where you can go no further.