Any good writer is going to be well-received and is going to not be well-received; that's how you know you're a great writer.

Everyone in Hollywood is seeking fame and fortune; it's in the water here. Everyone from young women to old men - they all want it.

For women especially, it's important to be financially independent.

I am not, and have no interest in being, a musician of any kind.

I don't even listen to hip-hop anymore. All my friends are white and over 40.

I have me. I have God. I have my son. Everything else is extra.

I never heard 'I love you' as a child. I never felt pretty or cared for.

I remember specifically my mother telling me growing up don't put my business in the street. I was like seven, and I am like, 'What does that mean.'

I've never been a model, I was an actress for like a minute, but I've always been a writer. That's where I'm going to stay.

Life is a lot easier when you realize that you're not in control of it all.

My grandfather started his autobiography before he died; he never finished it. I would like to finish his autobiography because I finished mine.

Something that always fascinated me was the psychology and the psychology differences between men and women and how we relate to one another.

The entertainment industry is vast and is a reflection of the society we live in.

There are a lot of things that I have not shared that I will never share. I do have a personal private life.

When Goldie Hawn wrote her memoirs, no one said Goldie Hawn was snitching. When Jane Fonda wrote her memoirs, no one said Jane Fonda was snitching.

Your man wants to know that there's nothing you wouldn't do for him - if that's your committed relationship.

A lot of times, women complain about men around them. It's not always someone else's fault. If you're the common denominator in 57 different relationships that didn't work out, then maybe, just maybe... it's you!

'Confessions of a Video Vixen' is not a book about my encounters with celebrities, or anyone else for that matter. It is my life story, thus far, which just so happens to include some people you may have heard of.

Every man is different. You can't generalize with men; you have to find out what your man wants. You have to listen to him when he's telling you what he wants, because a lot of times they're telling you, but you're not listening.

I've always had a man's mindset, and that's why I mostly have men friends, and that's why I've been around so many men. I've always been a tomboy. And any man that knows me will tell you I'm not a girly girl.